This is an archive for all the Zweig and Kirtland children.

If you are reading this, you are old enough to comprehend what you are about to read. Perahps your folks told you about this blog, or maybe I did.

I never really kept a steady journal throughout the years.

I don't plan, at the time that I write this, to have children of my own.

I wanted to have a way to pass on my experience to you. Because there will come a time in your life that you feel alone. Like no one understands you. And maybe, just maybe, you'll find some solace in this blog.

I've been planning on writing something like this for years. Though I originally intended it as a book back in the day - it makes more sense to do it like this. It won't be highly refined. There's no over arching story. It will be me, in a pretty raw form, as I try to pass on lessons of my own life onto you.

There won't be a particular order for the topics I post. Some will come spur of the moment. Others I'll have planned to make.

Some will be a few sentences, others will be a page or two long.

Just know, I make this out of love. 

Jeffrey Zweig, II

be afraid of standing still - remain learning and grow

The title pretty much sums it up......

Sex

It is messy, awesome, and imperfect.

Revel in the unique experiences you will have.

Porn is a fantasy - don't expect that in your everyday life.

take chances

Nothing will be gained by not doing so.....

finding a place to live

one of the best independent, life changing experiences you can do.....

budgeting your finances.....

because you need to realize the equivalent exchanges of these things.....

Strange Relationships - Non-Monogamous

Some people would consider the relationships I've held to be "strange" because they are holding up to the monogamous, Christian light that most in our country are so familiar with.

I've never been one to take the road most traveled as it goes to personal decisions that I've made in my life, and you should do the same.

I don't let society define my relationships with others. You should define them for yourself, if they even really need definition!